Backdoor Entrance: Get Her To Say Yes

If you read around men’s online magazines, you will soon find a boatload of advice on how to get her to give you full access to her back door. More often than not information repeats itself over and over again about how off-limits anal sex and anal play is for most women. However, as experience and cordial requests will show you, most women would agree to anal if properly asked, given the time to prepare, and accompanied by a fun and understanding partner – that should be you, man. As these guys and girls go on and on about how much they like this and that inserted in their back door on endless post comments written in bad English, I just realized anal continues to be a stigmatized sexual practice more people would be able to enjoy if they made sure to inform themselves first.

While tons of experts believe the anus has no lubrication, this body opening does secrete some sort of lining liquid that helps evacuation go through. What is very much true is this “lubrication” can prove not to be enough to accomplish successful anal penetration and anal stimulation during the penetration process. Nothing could cause more friction than an inappropriately lubricated object going into a tight space. That is exactly the case of the penis and the anus. Not the most traditional friends, a more open-minded and sexually curious world of sexually active beings, straight and gay, have found the joys of anal stimulation, sex and prepping a whole new experience in terms of intimacy.

Anal sex is pretty much a matter of trust – and thrust, yes. But seriously, anal sex requires the receiver to fully trust the entering partner. If not properly done and propped, anal sex can cause terribly painful tears, discomfort, bleeding, nausea and one heck of a mess. The receiving end in anal sex must trust his or her partner will make sure to apply as much or as little pressure according to what the receiver can tolerate. Not only that, but the receiver should also trust the entering partner to apply enough lubrication to both the entering penis and anal area. Last but not least, the entering partner should be wise enough as to retrieve him or herself in due time when the receiver so requests it.

Several partners worry not only about the penetration process, but about the stiffness of their penis while entering their partner. A normal erection should provide enough stiffness to penetrate a vagina as much as an anus. However, making sure to have a full erection before beginning penetration could guarantee less painful situations where insertion or retrieval may become uncomfortable or too prompt. As erectile aids have flooded the pharmaceutical market, many a man buy Viagra to help their erections get harder. However, getting Viagra online or at your local provider would be better accompanied by a doctor’s prescription and this professional’s green light to use such a product.

Cleanliness is another important factor for women. While some might be curious to try out this more and more often sexual practice, most will back out from the whole experience simply out of fear of making a mess while in a very intimate situation. Making a mess all over a partner or over his bed is probably women’s # 1 fear concerning anal sex practices. Fecal matter is the last substance you want around your bed; understand your partner’s concern and find the best methods to clean the anal canal. For a person with regular digestion and disposal patterns, eating light foods and monitoring evacuations has proven effective enough to practice anal sex without having to worry about unwanted leftovers. For others who are less constant, having an enema applied will clean the anal tube and release the receiving end of concern for soiling the bed or the entering partner.